Why is being “agreeable” a dirty word?

Feminine and Masculine are on opposite sides of the spectrum. They are two polar opposites of the same life forces. They both need each other to exist. Neither is better or worse. Neither is inferior or superior to the other. Both are required to keep the fabric of society, and life in general, intact. And the reality that may be hard to swallow is that the feminine embodied person needs someone who embodies masculine energy.

Unfortunately, the concept of feminine energy is often misunderstood as negative such as subjugation or being a doormat. It is also over identified as something that is entirely based on the external aspects of a person. Personally, I’m totally able to connect to my feminine energy in my relationships and remain in my power. In contrast, at work I’m often in my masculine energy because I need to produce “things” with my logical mind. The two are not mutually exclusive.

Feminine energy is about being, acceptance and receiving. It’s passive, agreeable and accommodating while masculine energy is active and being in control (and often appears controlling).

While masculine energy is about doing, go getting, goal seeking and giving.

Both exist within us. One is dominant over the other. For those who are feminine and desire a masculine mate, it’s about trusting in masculine leadership!

And in relationships… It’s the being okay following a man’s lead and trusting their leadership.

Agreeable is not a dirty word. It doesn’t mean you doesn’t have opinion or never voice your opinions. Again, people tend to always assume the extreme positions in discussion like this when in real life flexibility exists for everyone. But the general idea still holds: that the feminine is attracted to its masculine opposite in energy. The masculine needs the polarity of a feminine person.

I would also argue that being agreeable is based on love because you know what really matters in relationship at the end of the day it’s not about being right but being happy and often you can’t have both.

Everyone of us, man or woman identified, need to operate on both energies to function in life but there is a difference in relationships because it’s a co-creation between two people.

In your corner,

-R